My best friend is dating my ex

" Oddly enough, after viewing some of the discussion on the comment thread, I realized that my judgment might have been a little harsh.

I'm not trying to generalize, but most of my female friends talk about past boyfriends, dissecting why their relationships didn't work.

3) You are behaving badly, not talking to your friend because she is dating your ex. She is playing by the rules and you are being a sore loser.

Even if you're no longer with the person who you once thought to be the love of your life, how could you stomach that person being with your friend?Regardless of how much each of you has moved on, there is always that bittersweet feeling of what could have been.You don't want them back, but you don't want to keep being reminded of what could have been.From "he just doesn't get me" to "we're too different" to "why did we stay together THAT long," women tend to overanalyze past relationships.However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.

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